When asked what guys are getting wrong in bed, adult stars gave the same answer—and it’s something men might not expect.
Popular creators from the adult industry are opening up about a major misstep they say many men keep making in the bedroom—and the answer has caught a lot of people off guard.
They’re pointing fingers mostly at Australian men, though not everyone may agree with that generalization.
Alicia Davis, who used to work as a correctional officer before entering the adult industry, didn’t hold back. She said: “They think it’s all about getting in and getting the job done rather than the little things that can add to the moment.”
When it comes to the bedroom, Alicia Davis says guys need to focus on ‘the little things’ more.
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She also mentioned that guys often seem more interested in their own experience than making sure their partner is enjoying it too. She continued: “Whenever I’ve slept with an Irish or British guy, they have been much more communicative and sensual.”
“It makes a world of difference.”
Annie Knight, who once made headlines for reportedly sleeping with 300 people in a year, fully agreed with Davis’ comments.
Annie Knight says Australian guys tend to skip over foreplay.
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Knight said that Aussie men in particular have a habit of rushing things and skipping right over foreplay. She explained: “What they don’t understand is you have to go slowly. Start by kissing and light touching.”
She criticized this fast-track approach, saying it often leads to underwhelming and unmemorable experiences for both people involved.
Kay Manuel, another adult performer, also echoed those concerns.
Kay Manuel says men ‘derail the whole experience’ regarding intimacy.
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The OnlyFans model commented: “Honestly, it derails the whole experience,” pointing to how rushing into it tends to kill the vibe.
She added that this lack of patience often results in women faking it, just to avoid bruising a guy’s ego.
Manuel emphasized her point by saying: “We are made to feel that stroking their ego by faking it will make for better s**. But that only serves… them.”
Escort Katija Cortez says there are unrealistic expectations around the female org**m.
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Joining in, escort Katija Cortez brought up how guys often have unrealistic expectations when it comes to female pleasure.
“I’m not sure how men really think we can just make it happen automatically 57 times in a session,”